May 14, 2025
To every nurse and first responder- thank you.
Your presence in moments of chaos, grief, fear, and uncertainty makes a difference that can’t always be measured in words. Whether you’re sitting beside someone in their pain, making critical decisions under pressure, or showing up day after day for those society often overlooks, your compassion is seen, your resilience is respected, and your humanity is honoured.
May marks International Nurses Month, and it’s not just a time to celebrate you- it’s a time to hold space for the unique emotional toll this work can take and offer care back to the caregivers, because your well-being is just as important as those you serve.
Supporting vulnerable populations- whether it’s individuals facing chronic illness, addiction, poverty, trauma, or violence- carries a unique emotional and psychological weight for those on the front lines. You’re not just providing physical care; you’re often bearing witness to suffering, holding emotional intensity, and navigating systemic barriers that feel far beyond your control.
Some common stressors include:
Compassion Fatigue:
Compassion fatigue occurs when a caregiver becomes emotionally drained from the constant demands of providing care, particularly to those who are suffering or in distress. This exhaustion can lead to feelings of helplessness, numbness, and detachment. Nurses may feel they have nothing left to give, even though they continue to care for others. Over time, this emotional depletion can affect their ability to empathize with patients, reducing the quality of care they provide and increasing the risk of burnout.
Vicarious Trauma:
Vicarious trauma (also known as second-hand trauma) arises when caregivers are repeatedly exposed to the trauma of others, often leading them to internalize the emotional pain and suffering of their patients. This can result in a shift in worldview, causing the caregiver to feel a heightened sense of anxiety, fear, or loss of safety. For nurses, this might manifest as persistent thoughts or emotions related to the trauma they’ve witnessed. They may experience intrusive thoughts, nightmares, or a deep sense of despair, as they find it difficult to compartmentalize the suffering they have been exposed to in their work.
Moral Injury:
Moral injury occurs when caregivers are forced to act in ways that conflict with their deeply held values and beliefs, often due to systemic limitations, institutional policies, or ethical dilemmas. Nurses may experience moral injury when they are unable to provide the level of care they know is necessary due to factors like resource shortages, overwork, or institutional pressures. This can lead to feelings of guilt, shame, and a profound sense of betrayal, both toward the system and themselves. Over time, moral injury can significantly erode a caregiver’s sense of purpose and satisfaction in their role, leading to long-lasting emotional distress.
You Are Human, Too:
In the rush of rounds, emergency calls, and endless to-do’s, it’s easy to forget: you matter, too. Your nervous system isn’t immune to cumulative stress. You may find yourself becoming numb, irritable, disconnected, or unusually tired. You may feel guilty for needing rest when others are suffering. But your wellness isn't selfish- it’s sustainable care. When you're resourced, regulated, and supported, you can offer your presence with greater ease and less burnout. Your work is noble, and caring for yourself is part of that mission.
How to Cope: Practical Supports for Nurses and First Responders
Here are some evidence-based ways to support your mental health:
Practice Micro-Regulation
Use small body-based techniques throughout the day (e.g., breathwork between patients, grounding exercises before or after shift transitions) to prevent nervous system overload.
Debrief with Safe People
Make time to process emotionally charged experiences- not just clinically, but emotionally. Whether it’s a therapist, colleague, or peer support group, talking it out helps prevent internalization.
Name What’s Yours vs. Theirs
Boundary work isn’t just about saying no- it’s about emotionally separating others’ pain from your own. Journaling or checking in with a therapist can help with this mental/emotional boundary work.
·Connect to Meaning
Reconnect to your “why.” Whether it's through reflective practice, narrative therapy, or spiritual rituals- finding meaning can help buffer burnout.
Invest in Joy Outside of Work
You are more than your role. Dance, hike, paint, laugh- nourish the parts of you untouched by caregiving.
You Don’t Have to Do This Alone
Your work is deeply meaningful- but so is your wellbeing. At Integra Health, we offer trauma-informed support tailored for healthcare professionals and first responders. We understand the unique stressors of your role and are here to hold space for you- not just the role you play.
Book a complimentary consultation with one of our psychotherapists today. Let us support the person behind the scrubs, the uniform, the badge. You deserve it.
Written by: April Bravo - Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying)
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